Being happy by being yourself!

We are what we think

Sometimes we only hear and believe what people tell us. Maybe not to get rejected or not to be too different from others, but can we be happy when we compromise too much or pretend to be someone we’re not? Not really, only if you’re honest to yourself and only if you accept yourself the way you are, you can have a pure mind and a pure heart. True happiness comes from a true heart. 
Choose to be happy and you will feel happy. Refuse to believe anything that can take away your happiness unless it’s something reasonable to believe. But even then, remember to stay strong and be yourself. Don’t allow all the sad moments to control your life. Control them by making use of the positive thoughts above the bad thoughts.

Sometimes when I’m unhappy I choose to replace the sad thoughts for positive ones and my mind feels the good energy, picks it up and then I really do feel happiness, even when the circumstances seem otherwise. Of course the truth will always be there but luckily we have the ability to discern the truth.

Make sure your thoughts and words are in line with who you really are. As I already mentioned, use your positive energy to change the negative feelings and always remember: The secret of being happy is accepting who you really are in life, letting go of what you can’t control, counting your blessings everyday, always listening to your heart and give back love to people who really love you. 


When you are no longer afraid is when you can be yourself.” Quote by Shannon L. Alder



10 thoughts on “Being happy by being yourself!

  1. Thank you so much for this post, my friend! Being happy is definitely a choice and we should always leave the tick permanently indide this option box!

    Take care, be happy and inspired with the beauty in life, always! Cheers! ☺

  2. This is so true my friend! ❤️ Happiness in Life is a choice. There are times when we have to fight our own hearts and finally learn to forgive. While it doesn’t make the pain or disappointment go away, it liberates us from spending so much of the time given us in our lives, being unhappy because we can’t forgive and move on. Once we can do that, our hearts are much more open to happiness. Life is to short to let someone else steal our time by trying to make us unhappy.

    • Well said Keli! Forgiveness sets us free and may even make us happier than the pain we had from being hurt. Thank you for visiting and commenting on my post and I wish you a wonderful and blessed day! 🙂

    • Hi Karl, I’m honored you found my post inspiring, thank you! I’m happy to be part of WP and to have to the opportunity to share my thoughts with lots beautiful people over here. Thanks for the follow on my blog and I wish you a wonderful and blessed Sunday. 🙂

    • Marina, I’m glad you liked the post. Thanks a million for visiting and leaving such a wonderful comment! 🙂 They say positive energy is contagious so I’m happy to be part of spreading it. 😉 Have a blessed and wonderful day! 🙂

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